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writes:I have been with a fella for 3 months. His wife of 17 years left saying she was unhappy. He is in contact with her every day because their children are teenagers who they share. He talks to her like they are very good friends yet he has only been separated 6 months. He does tell me it is hard, yet I feel he is prolonging his own healing. I'm finding this hurtful.... How do I know if he is really ready to move on?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Perhaps he himself was ready for this split too, basically he had already detached himself from them being "together", making it much quicker and easier for them to simply be friends, if this what they both essentially wanted.
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reader, gmapeaches  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Well, I would say ask him.. but to be honest.. after that long of a marriage if he had the answer.. if he was so together that he could say for sure he would be pretty magical.. love is a chance under the best of circumstances and even if he said yes i am ready for you i am done with her.. that would not be a true guarantee.. he has a past with her.. a history that is going to be hard to overcome.. if he is worth it to you.. you must just risk it.. it is a question only you can answer.. this question is one only time will tell.. good luck.
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