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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. Usually when I go out with a boy they tend to say "I love you" after like 2 weeks of going out and I usually answer I love you back always thinking that I am in love. Well, with this new bf I wanted to take things slow and see if I could actually wait and "see" if I can really mean the words of I love you. One day my boyfriend tells me that he is falling for me to the point where he can't get up and I was shocked by this because he is not the one to say things like that for he is usually shy. My response was a bunch of kisses and a huge smile on my face. But later in the week I tell him that I'm falling for him and he only replies with "ohh I see". I guess my question is if I should worry about him losing that feeling he had for me before, or basically what do you think of this situation?Answers from any sex: guys what do you think, ladies what should I do?
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reader, dumb_smart92 +, writes (31 January 2009):
dumb_smart92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to the both of you that have answered!
I will continue to wait to say that magical phrase but until then i guess i have thought too hard about the situation. The thing is that this is the first bf i have ever had that actually, i guess, apreciates me for who i am and doesnt think "with a second head" .
I will keep you updated with anything new [and im sure there will be many!]
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reader, ellababesx  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 If this guy has fallen for you, his love towards you can't possibly change within a week. If your worried that it DID change in that ammount of time, then he wasn't actually in love with you.
I think you are thinking too hard into the situation.
Guys aren't amazing with thier speech, you may already know that. so I shouldn't look to hard into the things he says, sweet heart.
Just accept the fact that the guy loves you and you love him the same way, you're a couple.
He wont loose the love he has for you unless there is a reason that you can rightly find, and if there is, share it with us and I will be happy to help. :)
Good luck!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 hmmm...love is subjective. its personal. i think u are doing the right thing and waiting to say those special words. So many people speed right past all the nessesary getting to know u stuff and say I LOVE U from the start. Why not just take it one step at a time, and if he really does mean that much to u tell him. You are young and so is he...feelings can change over night. Just be patient.
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