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writes:Plz help,I've recently lost my virginity to my new boyfriend, the thing is im to worried im not doing more to please him, how do you give hand jobs?like what do i do?, and any more tips on making the sex better for him, hes much more experienced then me and i just feel im letting him down, please help
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reader, maggie1987 +, writes (23 November 2007):
 well thats something to be proud of because at least you aint giving it away that easily , so tell your boyfreind your not well endoured in that part of your life , im sure hell understand and be more respoectful that you aint being around the block
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reader, Giles  +, writes (23 November 2007):
It's very difficult to advise on how to do sexual things e.g. handjobs, oral sex, inetrcourse, etc. because its different for each person! Where some men like it hard, others like it soft, where some like nakedness, other prefer a bit of lingerie, Where some prefer a submissive woman, others like a bit more dominant one (generally though, i would think most like interaction more than idleness). So a few tips, without getting too pornographic, on general principles you can use:- Erogenous zones include the nipples, testacles, and the tip of the penis, especially the piece of skin that connects the tip to the skin on the outside, located on the underside of the head in the centre, in that order of sensitivity.- Interact, talk, look at him, ask him what he wants, and especially, dont be afraid to tell him what you want.- Oral sex is pleasurable for the him as well, if he wants to do it of course.- As the previous comment said, be mindfull of his reactions, and remember them. But that doesn't mean you should always do the one thing you know works, add a bit of variety during the session.- Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay...My mind has drawn a blank right now, but I hope that helps a bit.
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reader, calamitysil +, writes (23 November 2007):
 Let him guide you to what feels good for him. He'll show you what turns him on. Some men don't talk much during sex, so watch his body language and you'll soon learn what he loves best.Generally men love some input and are only too happy to show you what works for them, and the best thrill for men is usually when their partner shows how much she enjoys making love with him, so make sure he understands how to turn you on too!
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