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writes:hello evry 1 i have a question im a female 30 i hav a boyfriend but i rarely see him but i love him...but on the other hand i met a great man wonderful hes perfect in every way hes tall dark n handsome i ended up cheating on my bf with this man....just to find out hes married n has 3 kids i found this out when his wife called me so mad n left a msg....my question what should i do i wish i could continue to see him n he said he would divorce if i left my bf....what do i do? oh n by the way hes 46 yrs....thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 May 2010):
He's so wonderful that he's married with kids and lied to you. And you fell for it and cheated. Not only do you give up the married man who is just using you and will ditch you, you need to let your boyfriend go so he can find a woman who does love him. not seeing him enough is no excuse to cheat, and if you did cheat then there are serious problems that you need to address.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 Don't trust the words of an adulterer. If you believe his words, you will set yourself up for more heartbreaks.
This chapter in your life have ended and you should begin a new chapter in your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): Whether you found out before or after you had sex with this man the answer will still be the same : you think nothing for yousrlf therefore you will continue.you need to take a hard look at yousrelf and look critivcally at a woman who has no self respect, self esteem issues and think nothing of now still cheating with this MM. In the end you will do what you want to irrespective of what is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): If he can't respect the wife he's with, he won't respect you, just like he already didn't respect you when he hid the fact he was married from the start. He's looking to start a relationship with someone way younger(in his mind, it's like trading an older vehicle in for a newer one), and he doesn't care about you, or who the newer, younger girl is, as long as he's making himself feel young in the process. He's not the perfect man, like you think, but has deceived you and found you to be naive with your age. Without carrying on further about why it's a bad idea in so many ways, let me ask you this, and you can go from there.. Do you feel bad at all that you cheated on your bf for this work of art? If not, go and be under his spell, but if you actually do love your bf like you said you do, go and confess cheating on him, and hope and pray he forgives you and doesn't break your heart in return.
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