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writes:I was with a man for 17 years i have a child with him we lived together for 11 years. thing where not going good so i moved out thinking we needed some time apart well a week and half later he is seeing someone and had her meet my child a month later he had the girl move in to the house we shared now 4 months later he starts to call me to talk but sounds like he want to get back together BUT he still lives with the girl what should i do? Please help very confussed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): It seems he is not happy with the new women in the life and he want you back.
question is what you want?
if you want to get the life back with him, it is golden chance.. just use that and be get togethoer. enjoy the life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 August 2010):
He wants to have his way, is what he wants. Turn him down, he's not worth your time. It didn't work before, he went off as soon as you'd split up, now he's looking to cheat and dump this other woman. And you'll have the same problems all over again. He hasn't suddenly changed into a guy you can be with. He's the same. It won't work, and he's playing you both so he can have fun. End it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): You don't talk to him other than about issues with your child.
He is living with another woman who he is having sex with and providing for on a daily basis - its probably not working out and he wants an ear. At worst he wants both of you for sex and company.
I think you know you are better than this. There is a reason you guys were together 17 years and never married. The relationship was not a good one. He did you a favor by moving on, but now is showing his true colors by wanting his sex with someone else and your ear/company on the side.
Listen, I don't know where the confusion in this situation is. Be a strong woman and do the right thing for yourself. Ignore this guy. He made his bed, now let him sleep in it. You deserve better than to be in a relationship like you guys had. You deserve better than to be in second place too!
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