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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, I have the decition of dating a man. He is everything i like. Funny, smart, attractive, sweet, ect. The whole pacage. My mother loves him, but has no idea what is going on with me and him. We spend just about everyday togeather, and each day we get closer. I really like him, and he really likes me. When we are at his house, he will introduce me to his friends as "his girl". There are a few problems with our current situation though. He had just broken up with his girlfriend of a year who lived with him. He also has kept everything and anything he could of hers. This includes the flowers he keeps next to his bed that are wilted.Also, when one of his friends came over, he introduced me as his best friend and wouldn't tell his friend my age. Also there is a very big age difference. About 7 years.My questions are; Is he on the rebound, and only looking for someone because of that? Is he embarrised of me because of my age?and, Is the age difference going to be a problem in the future?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 January 2010):
The age gap isn't a problem if there is true love and both of you are putting effort in. The problem is that he seems like he is on the rebound. I think it always takes time to get rid of personal items. He may not want to get rid of everything until he is sure you two are an item. But let's be honest, to keep wilting flowers is something else. I'm not sure he's over her, and I think you might end up hurt.
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