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writes:Hey I met this wonderfull guy he is funny,adorable,gorgeous,beautiful and so sincere but he is bisexual and I have fallen in love with him and I told him that I loved him and he was blown away but this. We are good friends and he said he wants to take me on a few dates to get to know me alot more and then see if we like each other enough to have a serious relationship. I'm just scared that if we do have a serious relationship is he going to get bored of having sex with me and want to have sex with a guy? If that happened I would try to introduce a 3 some into our relationship because I love this guy so so much and I would do anything for him....But I just need some advice so I know if I should continue this relationship or just stay at being friends. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Miss C  + ♥, writes (30 March 2007):
 Just because he is bisexual, doesn't mean you must sacrifice more to make him happy. I think you are plannng your future too soon, and even though you love him, you must tone it down, relax and get to know him by doing as he suggested and going on a few dates first.
Being in a relationship with someone bisexual isn't entirely different to being in a relationship with someone straight. If you love each other then he must be willing to give up both men and women to be with only you, because you are or should be the only person he wants to spedn the rest of his life with.
As for the idea of 3some, what makes you think this is what he wants? He may not be up for that type of thing and it is important that even if he was, that you do not do something you are not 100% comfortable about for the sake of love. After all, relationships work both ways and is he as prepared to sacrifice his own happiness as much as you are? in the mean time, cool things down. Besoming friends is a better idea first because this can help you to gain his trust, one of the things you seem to lack at this moment. Good luck! Regards from Miss C
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (30 March 2007):
 Ok… well first you need to go on a few dates and get to know each other better (just like he suggested)
When thinking about a 3some you need to be 100% happy with it. Don’t just do it to make someone else happy. 1/ you’re going to be intimate with another person, 2/ think about STD’s 3/ Think about your self respect.
I know you love him but you need to make sure that its not just you making sacrifices, a relationship is a two way thing… if he’s not willing to give up men and women to be with only you… then you need to just be friends.
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reader, mum2be +, writes (30 March 2007):
Just because your friend is bi, it does not mean that he is any more likely to leave you than if he was straight! If you would normally panic this much about a straight bf of yours going with some other girl, then worry ahead, but bing bi i suppose it would make finding a bf/ gf harder, because you dont know wheather 'the one' would be a boy or a girl!
Relax a bit, you say he is 'wonderful'... if he is, he will treat you with respect, and wont cheat on you!
You also say you are willing to bring threesomes into the relationship... well then, you have nothing to worry about!
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reader, mum2be +, writes (30 March 2007):
Just because your friend is bi, it does not mean that he is any more likely to leave you than if he was straight! If you would normally panic this much about a straight bf of yours going with some other girl, then worry ahead, but bing bi i suppose it would make finding a bf/ gf harder, because you dont know wheather 'the one' would be a boy or a girl!
Relax a bit, you say he is 'wonderful'... if he is, he will treat you with respect, and wont cheat on you!
You also say you are willing to bring threesomes into the relationship... well then, you have nothing to worry about!
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