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He's in Iraq and I can't contact him just whenever I want...it's so hard.

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Question - (5 December 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

ok. i have a boyfriend that is in the marine corps. he has been over in iraq for a little over a month now, and it has been the hardest month of my life. i have a question for anyone thats been in a long-distance relationship with the circumstances of not being able to even call each other- how do i make the time go by faster to save me from hurting so badly while he's away?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005):

Hey I know what you are going through my boyfriend went to Iraq at the very start for 6 months and he is away back again for another six months the first time I found it really hard because it was on the news constantly I found that when I was in the house I was glued to the television for the 24 hour news coverage. What I did then was threw myself into work took any extra hours I could and tried to spend as much time as possible with friends and family and then when I went to bed at night and all I could do was think about him I would write him really long letters and talk about what we would do when he got back, also making up parcels of things he likes and he cant get hold of makes you feel like you are helping him makes you feel a wee bit closer to him.

This time has been tough because hes away over Christmas but I have just tried to busy myself Ive been going to the gym getting facials and having my nails done, may as well look good when he comes back and he will and so will your boyfriend keep your chin up he'll be back soon!!

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A female reader, lisa_01 Australia +, writes (5 December 2005):

lisa_01 agony auntI have also been in a similiar situation with my bf as he is was in the army, to kill time i joined a gym, spent more time with my family, gave myself really long task's to complete like re decorating the house or something like that. I know it seems like for ever but remeber its not, he will be back in your arms b4 you know it.

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