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writes:I met this guy who's 2 years older than me, and he has the reputation as a 'player' but all my friends tell me that hes obviously interested. and i've hung out with him a few times. but we only talked those times, and he always asks me to hang out and stuff... and i really like him. i don't know if i should wait until he makes a move, or maybe hes not making it because hes afraid of my reaction...i would just go for it and kiss him, but that might be awkward also
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): ok if he's a 'player' then DONT kiss him...he might have another g/f...if he's a 'player'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): i wouldn't do anything1! accually, i would...walk away, if he is a 'player' than i wouldn't trust him. i'm 13 and know x-atly what is going to happen. My friend went through the same thing..thinking "oh, well, maby he'll change" uh, RONG!! all she ended up with was a broken heart!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): If hes considered a "player" then stay the heck away from him in my opinion. Your only 13-15, so HOPEFULLY your not sexually active. make sure you use the term "player" lightly. Anyways, the players tend to be the cheaters and the ones to break hearts. If your not a delicate person go for it. If you are, find you someone pure if you catch my drift. Not necessarily the nerds, just someone who looks like they are trying to do something with their life. The ones who get good grades in school, and dont try to stand out as much. Heres the key. The boys who go around trying to start fights and causing problems. They typically wont ever change, so dont waste your time their. I know this probably dont help much, but hopefully it leads you in the right direction. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha he does respect me surprisingly, its just that i dont know if i should wait until he makes a move, or should i say something to him? because i really do like him, and i would kiss him, but i dont know if i should, because if i kiss him and were not bf&gf, then he might think of me as another girl he could 'mess around with'. and i dont want that label from him.
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reader, ~pretty angel~  +, writes (24 January 2009):
many of my friends have dated guys that have had that reputation, and have gotten hurt, BAD. If i was u, i'd move on and try to find someone that would respect u.
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