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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this guy everyday for the past two weeks; whether through actual phone conversation or via text messages. And when we're on the phone(which is every other day), we talk for hours on end about everything. He told me he enjoyed being single but also missed some aspects of a relationship; he doesn't think he can find a girl who will meet his standards. He's always calling me when he's 'under the influence' and is more open (therefore I like him more) to me. When we saw last eachother though, it was if we didn't talk everyday. It was just awkward. My friends say he's interested, he's just too much of 'girl.' I took that in consideration, because i remember him telling me he didn't like aggressiveness in a girl yet he wasn't aggressive himself? He's such a shy guy until he gets a few drinks in him, but I don't like making up excuses for guys. Should I pursue anything with him, wait it out, or just move on? I feel that he's giving way too many mixed signals.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Unfortunately i think the only way to find out is to ask him, i know its extremely hard but you obviously have a bond and im sure he would understand if you just said something like "i was just wondering how you feel about me?" and see what he says, dont make it a huge thing, just drop it in there while your talking or something and see what he says. Also try not to call him for a couple of days, youve really got to have some patience but it will work. He will be all over you like a dog on heat. He will be sat in his room and suddenlythink ....why hasnt she called?!
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