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writes:Ok, so heres the story. About a year and a half ago I fell in love with a friend mine, anyways, it all got really really awkward cuz he didn't feel the same and stuff and I was acting kind of crazy cuz I was going through a lot at the time.About 6 months after that and after all the drama that went with it, I moved away to Sydney (I'm from Perth) to study for a year and while I was there I got really fit, lost like 45 kgs, was very big before, changed everything about my appearance and feel happy with myself AT LAST..haha, I still have feelings for this guy a bit, and when I got back and he saw me he's been flirting ever since, like really a lot flirting, and I dont know what to do, because it's all just so complicated, I don't want him to suddenly want to be with me now I'm hot, although I have changed my personality so I'm technically a different person... so yeah, any advice...?Also I dont know whether to bring up the past, this isn't just a crush, I see a future with this one. Thankz x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): Go for it! You like him, he likes you! And I would have said it, but you did say it as well: you are a different person now too. It's been a year. Things change. Yes you are hot, yes it might be that he's just not that attracted to big girls, but it's worth a try.You'll find out as you get close how his true nature is, if hes just into you now because you are thin or because you feel that much better about yourself and it shows. Also, as love grows deeper, even if you gain all that weight again he might still be by your side, because by then he's realized what a diamond he has.Congrats on getting fit! And best of luck with love!
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