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writes:HI, Please help me. Me and my boyfriend have been going through a bit of S*** latley. Im really In love with him. But yet recently I think he's being off with me. I've asked him and he denies it. A few close friends of ours agree he is being off with me and then he keeps saying that I'm the one being off. Its really frustrating and because of this I have been thinking of Leaving him. However, I Keep changing my mind because i know I Live him. But I feel I can't talk to him becuase he gets Pissed with me. He keeps having a go at me over nothing, He dosn't hurt me phicicall or anything and we keep having arguments and It really, really upsets me. He Just Keeps acting like he doesn't want to be with me anymore and I don't know what to do about it. He claims to love me, and that he wants to be with me but I doubt it. We hardly say I Love you to one and other and Its Like we don't have a relationship. Our sex life is non exsistant at the moment and I don't know how I can get him to be okay with me. I Kepp blaming myself and the fact he's not paying attention to me is making me feel unatractive and lonely. Please help.xxx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 This sounds like there are problems which are not being addressed. Maybe you can get to talk to him and tell him that there's a problem. Don't tell him that you FEEL there is a problem, because he will take the easy exit and deny there is a problem. Tell him that you need to discuss this.My guess is, yes, he doesn't want to be with you anymore and has not found a way to tell you so. If I were you, and he didn't address any issues, I would stay away. I would make it explicit that you are not receiving what you deserve. He would have no choice but to face things. If he loves you, he will come for you. If he doesn't, he won't, but you'll spare yourself a lot of pain. Not knowing what to do is the worst of what you're going through.Hope this helps.
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