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*nid
writes:Hi, I've been with my husband for 8 yeras now, and lately he's been having problems getting hard, he tried some naturals pills and some vitamis, it worked at the beggining but now is worst, sometimes even with the oral sex he doesn't get hard, sometimes I think he's cheating on me, wht should I or we do??
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reader, enid +, writes (18 May 2012):
enid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnx I think u guys r right, n he needs 2 go m c a doctor
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2012): hmm, this is a though one. not being able to have an erection can be caused by many things: his prostate not working properly, his blood not entirely healthy, stress,...
if he smokes, then 9/10 his penis won't have an erection anymore, it'll best for him to stop now, before he won't even have a tiny bit of an erection.
if he's stressed, and believe me, it can do a lot to a man, you should help him relax. but he may no wan't to talk about it, it could harm his pride.
and if it isn't one of these, go visit a doctoc, they will probably know what's going on...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 May 2012):
 I doubt this means that he is cheating on you. Men can lose there libido for plenty of reasons, is he stressed about anything at the moment? Anything on his mind? I think the best solution for this is to get himself checked by a doctor to rule out any medical problems, I know it can be hard for a man to talk about this but he needs to rule out anything serious. If there is nothing medically wrong then maybe he can try some viagra or clearing his mind. If he is worried he cannot get an erection then he probably won't be able to then because it is stressing him. Talk to him, see how he feels. Communication is important here. Tell him not to be embarrassed and that you still love him. Try to understand how he feels.
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