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writes: My girlfriends parents wont let her see me anymore. Her mum and dad let me stay over with no hassle and even let me stay in the same bed as her, when i did we fooled around a bit but i made sure we didnt have sex as it would be too loud. However her mum heard us fooling around and now she hates me. She doesnt even know me and she has the wrong idea. My gf wont let me talk to her..help? Reply to this Question
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reader, samska +, writes (28 August 2006):
samska is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate: I'm 17, and her mum knew we had had sex already (before)and she was fine with that
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): sounds like you're pretty young...SO my question would be what kind of parent lets their daughter's boyfriend sleep in the same bed?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 I agree totally with Dr Psych, and you must look at it from the parents perspective, the thought of anything going on in the bedroom under their roof is disrespectful to them. You should try your best to apologise to the parents, and give them some space to see if they want you to continue to see their daughter. Take care. xXx
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (28 August 2006):
 She is a parent and she has every right to feel unhappy about things going bump in the night under her roof. After all, it is her house and she can decide what happens therein. She hates you partly because you are fooling around with her 'little girl' (kids never grow up in the eyes of some parents) and partly because fooling around in her home is disrespectful to her. I think she probably trusted her daughter not to conduct a sexual relationship under her roof (or when she wasnt at home) and feels betrayed. I am sure they will cool off in time but if you want to be fooling around then it is probably best to do it when they are not around as it just isnt classy to have that sort of an audience! I stay at the in-laws sometimes with my husband and I would never do anything in the bedroom that I thought they could hear...I would be very embarrassed and would feel it disrespected them, and we are married! My point is that what you do with your girlfriend is up to you both but perhaps it would be better to conduct that aspect of your relationship well away from either sets of parents homes.
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