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Question - (14 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

"OPs Own Title" So I am 19 years old and I don't think that I have ever had an orgasm. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it still all feels the same to me. Just recently though, I was having sex with my boyfriend of almost a year now and I had this feeling that I had to pee so I told him to stop but I then realized that I really didn't have to go. Was that a sign of an 'almost' orgasm?.. Please help me. I desperately want to know what it feels like. Can anyone give me any tips?? Please and thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010):

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Thank you! Your help is much appreciated!

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A female reader, tmisty777 United States +, writes (14 June 2010):

tmisty777 agony auntYeas, the feeling to pee is close to the feeling of almost having an orgasm- pee before sex so that you don't confuse the two possibilities.

Most women dont hit their full maturity level of orgasm until their middle to late twenties, but there are some that do early.

Clit orgasms and g-spot orgasms are very different, and feel different.

While having sex, te g-spot is what get triggered, while most of the time masterbatin will stimulate the clit, which is much stronger than the g-spot orgasm.

When you orgasm during sex ur man will feel you pulse on himself, so if you think you might have orgasmed ask him-

I'm always filled wit pleasure, so I can't tell when I orgasm or not, and my boyfriend mentioned to me one night that he think I had an orgasm because I pulsed on him, so he was the one to tell me.

If you msterbate, remember, orgasming during sex feels different than masterbating!

Don't consentrate on figuring out if you're rgasming thought because you won' be focusing on the connection and the pleasure- just feel him.

hope this helped!

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (14 June 2010):

YouWish agony auntYes, that is a possible sign of orgasm is pressure on your bladder.

You're right about never having an orgasm. If you had had one, it would be unmistakeable and unforgettable.

I would recommend taking some time by yourself to explore your own body by yourself without your boyfriend. Use a vibrator, or hot tub jets, or something like that, and explore your clitoris, not your vagina. Take your time, and when you start feeling sensations, not to stop, but keep up the stimulation. Oh, and make sure you go to the bathroom prior to the exploring.

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