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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Things between my ex and I are looking up. We have been broken up for four months now (after a two year relationship) and we couldn't stop loving each other. We moved further apart after the break-up but he still takes time to drive down and see me (2 hrs). He hasn't dated in between but I have. Even after the dating I still know that I want him.He says he would want to get back together but he thinks he should have more time alone. I agree. Part of why we broke up was because he lost himself in the relationship and I was feeling a bit unsure about his abilities to grow-up. While we were apart we both got new jobs, our own apartments, taking care of ourselves, and yet we still want to be together. So I am very happy about this revelation.My only problem is. Like an idiot I went to write on his Facebook wall that I had fun when he came down and looked at his photos. He was dancing with some girl and taking very close face to face pictures, like they were together. I choose to believe he hasn't been with anyone else because he told me (not that it would bother me if we got back together, he has every right like I did to date) but I can't help but getting that sick feeling in my stomach thinking about it. I am worried It'll get to me. I want to be mature about it. But I'm finding it making me feel almost like a clock is ticking to get him back. I don't think that an appropriate way to feel. Please help me with some perspective on the situation. He has asked for me to visit him soon.
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