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Help me have more confidence with the ladies.

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Question - (19 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2009)
A male Macedonia age 41-50, *ube writes:

Hi, I have a little problem with my friend. We know each other for 2 years now and she likes me very much. So do I, but i don't know how, I think i love her.. I need advice what to do, how to behave etc.

I didn't have much luck this year with girls, I don't know why, is it because I am not trying enough or what..? Whenever I see a good looking girl, I start thinking to ask her to go out together, but after few days I give up..!! Please help me, how to get over this..

Thank you very much

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009):

ok well you need to get over the fact that for some reason you need confidence you dont you just need to push yourself to persuing someone go on a couple of dates with someone talk about what you like doing let her talk about what she likes doing. if you like someone sit her down and tell her how you feel see if she feels the same way if so then take it slow no rush. just be yourself no one likes fake people if you know she likes you then theres no worry.

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A female reader, !Candice16! United States +, writes (20 January 2009):

!Candice16! agony auntso you really like this girl and may love her. well she returns your feelings so thats a good thing. you dont have to act a certine way or do over the top things. you will find it helpful to show her you care about her, tell her sweet things, that not only will make her feel special, but that you mean. dont lie to her, be there when she needs you, love her with all you have. girls dont expect much, we just want to be loved, appreaciated,and respected. have fun with her, let the relationship(if there is or will be one) be comfortable and promising. dont give up on her, she may be special.

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