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Help! Guy's actions towards me are confusing!

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Question - (20 February 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, *asha ray writes:

Hi guys

There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the conversation short. This happens in person but not when hes online.

But yesterday we had a club meeting at college he got friendly and gently cupped my face and stared into my eyes for at least 10 seconds. Initially I brushed it off as he didn't say anything and I was in such a trance I barely remember a thing! Then it happened again after the meeting, when we were on our way out of the meeting room he held my face and stared at me intently again and said "You don't know it yet but you're famous"

To me what he said made no sense at all, Im not a popular girl at college how the hell can I be 'famous'?

I've replayed it over and over but I still don't understand what he meant.

Can anyone help me crack his code?

Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014):

Yeah, be careful, 'cos friends can say anything, but sometimes it's not true. On the other hand, some guys like to play hard to get. Try ignoring him and see how he reacts. He could be the type of guy who likes to be friendly when he wants. Good luck x!

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A female reader, sasha ray United States +, writes (21 February 2014):

sasha ray is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for taking your time to help me! :)

He's 2 years my junior, that doesnt seem to be the problem.

The problem is I've been lead on like this before so Im having serious doubts about his intentions.

I plan on asking him that the next time I see him, I just don't want to be hurt like that again. So thats why I want to make sure Im not reading it incorrectly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014):

why don't you ask him what he meant? its wrong to just leave someone hanging without understanding anything. how old are you both? it depends on the age thing as well.

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