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writes:Well guys, the guy I just recently talked about, broke my heart. I found out today that he's getting back with his ex. Is it bad that I cried over it even though we weren't together? He let me fall for him and he told me he liked me but then he gets back with her. Isn't that leading me on? It really hurts and I wish I didn't care so much but I do and I haven't stopped crying.I even puked when he told me he was getting back with her.I don't know what to do. Should I be emberrassed that I'm crying over it? He's happy and I'm not. Is that fair? Please make me feel better.Love and kisses,Muffy33
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reader, muffy +, writes (15 December 2010):
muffy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys:) It's really sweet of you to help me:) I'm keeping the advice in mind:) 3
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reader, Simply Jane2011  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 hi,That happened to me, remember guy number three, in my question "three guys dont know wich one to date" wel guy number three did that exact same thing to me, and i felt the same way you did, I cried, i didnt eat, and i got all emotional. The best thing you can do is just be positive and dont let him get to you, There are better guys out there! Just smile and hold your head up, i did :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): i want to make you feel better i really would if i could, im askn for the same help in my life right now. i learned through time that nothn heals a broken heart but time! no you shouldnt feel bad that you cry and you shouldnt feel embarassed about it, it doesnt matter that u werent with him! love is love.. whe u care for someone it hurts period when its not returned. its messed up the situation and i have been in that situation and it sucks! u have to let out how u feel before it feels better.. it will feel better! just not as fast as u want it too..yea he lead u on, and its messed up because he had some idea he was thinkn about going bak to his ex but yet still told u he liked u. and im guessn he knew how u felt and still he told u he liked u and u may have thought yal had a chance to be together. he doesnt deserve you! and u will be happy again and u will find someone for you..if u have to cry-CRY! it helps to get it out. and the pain u feel will fade I can promise u that much..i beem thru it more times than i can count. try to do more things to take up ur time so u wnt think so much. when u stay in ur head it does more damage than u think. talk to friends or vent up here if u have to i will respond everytime for you or u can inbox me bacause i am in a situation quite like urs. i think as i got older it got easier 4me to deal with relationships pains but only because i knw it only goes away with time. im so sorry ur hurtn but dnt be embarassed about it because all matters of the heart matter. what u feel matters weither u were with him or not..
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