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writes:Hello. I'm finding it really hard to cope losing my girlfriend. She ended our relationship Tuesday because she was not happy but I really love her. If we were still together today it would of been 14 months and 2 weeks. I love her so much my heart hurts. My friends have told me not to talk to her, just to give her time but I'm finding it really hard. I love her and the thing is she is finding it hard to get over me and she isn't ready to say goodbye to me and let her move on or let me move on or vis versa. Can you help because I really want to get back with her because she's my dream girl. Is there anything I can do?
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (15 February 2008):
My friend that are two things that are almost impossible to change;mountains and a woman who doesn't love you.If you want some more sweet pain continue mingling with her but if you want peaco of mind,be brave and concetrate on other girls to help you get your mind off her.She's gone and if she does come back she'll surely won't stay long.Stop tormenting yourself and go out there and find happiness.Women will always be women.They'll just mess up your life if you fall so much in love.
Take care.
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reader, amber2328  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 I agree with askeve you can't heal if you guys dont cut ties for a while. It's so hard to do believe me I know but time is what you need so do yourself a favor and take a step back you'll see that you are going to be okay. Best of luck.....
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 Loving her is one thing but how you treated her is another .
You need to know why she was unhappy with you? Is it because of something you did or is it because of you as a person?
If you did anything wrong or did not do something which was expected from you , you need to apologize to her.
If she broke up with you because of your personality , it is a harder issue.
Call it a time up or break. She needs some space to re evaluate your relationship.
Keep your communications lines open with her. That is all you can do for now.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 February 2008):
 I'm sorry to hear your relationship has broken up after so long and I know it's hard for you. The best thing you can do is keep your chin up and give her some space. Don't go running after her as she'll only dig her heels in. Give her the chance to MISS YOU!!! Can I ask what happened and why she broke up with you?
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Wish I could help but I'm going through a very similar situation at the moment. good luck-Michael
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