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writes: I am very in love with a virgin.We were great for 1 week and a half.Then he wrote me an email:"there is something missing in this relation and it is not what i want, though i felt good." I wrote back asking what does he want and what is missing.I made many thoughts why, but i cant get him talk.I think he wasn't feeling comfortable to talk about his small or big, old or new problems.We met again 3 times after that as friends.Then he went in holidays for 1 week,without saying anything to me. Now we are not talking to each other at all and this silence is killing me.I don't wanna just let it go.He must feel something for me. I don't wanna wait. I wanna do something to heal this relation, to know what i did wrong, to know his feelings about me. How can i get him back? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): You have only been out together for 1 1/2 weeks. That is hardly a relationship. Please try and move on and try to take the hint that he is not interested. Sorry to be blunt but please don't hang onto someone who was not there for you in the first place.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (3 September 2006):
 im sorry to say this but normally some one says theres something missing because they mean i dont want to be with you no more! or i can suggest is staying friends or lose him for good altogether! you cant get some one back when they dont want to come back to you! as much as its going to hurt he will not tell you were it went wrong if there is a reason for a long time yet men attend not to tell you at the start because they dont want to give you any more pain or because they just cant be botherd to explain! just remain friends with him if he decides to come back hell be back! but you will have to accept this ralationship is over and you can only be his friend! im sorry but time will heal your pain!
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