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writes:I had 2 arguments with my boyfriend in a row and on a very simple reason. It was his fault that he couldnt return my phone calls since he was with his friends and I scolded him the following day. He kept silent saying nothing and that means he is hurt. he didnt call the next day aftr the fight also, and then i called and apologised. He said all right but I know he has not forgiven me and hings are not same it used to be I feel. He is a nice person except for this problem and I havent done anythin wrong other than this scolding. I feel really guilty that I want to forget everything. For two days i havent done anythin productive at my office also since i cant forget this. Can anybody suggest how i can get over this please. Im gonna go mad i guess. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 Call him out and tell him it is important and talk over dinner, kiss and make up.Everything will be back on track.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 Nothing serious, dear. It happens in love relation, and there is nothing serious to worry. It is time for you to show more and more affection, show more romance, write a good lover letter saying sorry. In turn he will enjoy your struggle silently, and you watch his silence. Husband scold wife, and wife scold husband on very little matters...are the romantic poetry. It is face making fight, that make life like a good and interesting novel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): I think you really need to talk to him about how you are feeling. You had a fight, you apologised, he said okay...but it is still not over in your head, as you say things feel different. I can understand why this is playing on your mind, if you are feeling so bad about it. So could you try to sit down with him, and explain how you are feeling about what happened? And ask him how he is feeling too. I know you must want to just forget all this and move on, but clearly it is not going to happen, as there seems to be a "block" between you. Or maybe there isn't. Maybe everything is okay as far as he is concerned, but you still feel troubled.
So I really do think it would be best to try and discuss this with him. And don't be too hard on yourself. Everybody fights sometimes, it happens. What's important is how we deal with things after. So focus on how to move on from here, in a positive way for the both of you. Good luck. x
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