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He won't ask me out and I'm afraid he'll turn me down if I do! What do I do?

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Question - (20 February 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *iddenspace writes:

Hiya,

I know this is a really silly question but...

There's this boy I really like, and he says that he likes me too. But I've dropped hints yet he still hasn't asked me out, and I am scared he'll say no if I do it!!!

Please help me, we are both extremely shy people.

Thank you

hiddenspace

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006):

ok so your having like the same problem i am having..only he said he is gunna ask me out but he dosn't no when.and i really cant wait any longer but i think that u should just talk to him and tell him your feelings and after a couple days if he dont ask you out then either ask him out or tell him your moving on cause u really cant wait any longer its killing you..sorry if i didnt help..lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2006):

hmmm pretty tricky..... well if u ask him and he likes u than hi should say yes believe me asking a guy out isnt all that hard! ive done it twice and both times they said yes!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2006):

If he won't budge, budge yourself. If he rejects, then live with it and go on. We all go through rejection in one form or another. Heck, I've been rejected about 2 times from trying to gain directorship in a design studio! More similarily, I've been rejected by a girl whom I was once in love with after we 'separated'. It hurts, but that's a part of life. Like losing teeth - it hurts like a bitch stomping my toes with her heels and then some, but gotta go book the appointment eventually, before all hell breaks loose and all my teeth fall out!

Lame.

Anyway, you know what to do... 8]

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A female reader, kyra +, writes (20 February 2006):

hi, ok so your both shy, that could be because of a number of reasons. i say if you like this guy then go for it. if you dont you'll kick yourself when the chance passes you by. All you can do is try you never know he might just surprise you and say yes. i wouldnt wait too much longer he might be snapped up by someone else. Go For IT hunni.

Good luck and take care hugs.X

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