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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My crush is a very sociable-touchy guy. He'll hug both boys and girls, kiss them on the cheek etc. When we're alone he's extremely sweet, romantic and touchy with me (yes, we've hooked up several time). However, when we're out with friends he limits himself to holding my hand -no hugs, no kisses. Just holds my hand and keeps me close by. For instance, the other night we went out with our friends and he took my hand, or wrapped his arm around my shoulders several times. During most of the night we were holding hands. But, he kept hugging other people...I don't really understand what's with him.I'm also really annoyed with a friend of mine. She's a great girl, but she seems to be an attention seeker. She has a boyfriend (long distance relationship)but she keeps getting in the way of my crush and I. For instance, the other night I was sitting next to my crush and I went to the toilet. When I came back she had stolen my seat! Also when we were walking, all of a sudden she came and separated our hands and stood between us. Or we'll be taking and she'll include herself in the conversation. To top it off, he does hug her when we're out with friends ¬¬' I don't understand nil. Can someone please explain men behavior?
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reader, N91  +, writes (24 June 2011):
 Yep, talkinghelps is right...
A hug is just a couple of second thing, him holding your hands shows that he wants to say, look at me and my girl! He's also putting his arm around your shoulder, always keeping you close and you are unhappy that he gives other people a quick hug?
Open your eyes! He is clearly showing that he likes you and wants only you, why else would he always keep you so close??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): Well this friend of yours obviously likes him ,If he holds your hanad that is way more affectionate and intimate then a hug in my opinion.
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