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writes:I'm having a relationship with a guy who doesn't kiss me either in bed or out, apart from a peck on the lips as I drop him off at the station. He also doesn't stroke me or caress me, and yet we really get it on sexually and I have been making massive allowances for the fact that he says there is a "barrier" for him which he hasn't yet got around to explaining. He says he wants to "learn" about sex and that I'm the first person to give him a blow-job. Last time we were together, which isn't very frequent (he lives with another woman, whom I've met!)wanted me to use my vibrator which upset me because, as I told him, why would I need to use it when I had him there - I went ahead anyway (whilst giving him said blow-job!) because I didn't want to break things up and then decided to speak up and say that it made me feel like a prostitute if he wasn't going to kiss me etc. at which point, as he was already halfway down the stairs ready to leave, he raised his voice and said I was "making demands". Am I making a fool of myself here is what I would like to know - is this guy just taking massive advantage of a good thing or could he have a real hang-up about intimacy - I've never experienced anything like it before and I fancy him like crazy!!! Also, is it possible that he could be gay?!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Hi, I hope this may encourage you.:-) I am a bi-sexual. Maybe your boy freind is gay. But being "GAY" has nothing to do with the fact that he doesn't like to kiss or caress! Gay people kiss and caress each other. (well at least the one's I like to be around) Sure there really are gay people who DO NOT like to caress or kiss (horibble) So its really a personnal problem of his. Not that he may be gay. I personally love to caress and kiss with male or female. I think your boy freind has an intimantcy issue. LOL Bye, hope this helps! :-)
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Hey,,
He sounds like a complete D*"%!! Hes got another woman which is why he isnt showing affection to you. He's making it quite clear to you that he only wants sex, however he's trying to make u think he will change. Don't stay with this man,, hes using you hunnibunch.. i know it's horrible to hear it..
I hope your okay x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): waaaaahhh! leave him now! that sounds horrible!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Kissing is highly personal. Casual sex to most men, is easy. He will be making you feel like a prostitute,an unpaid one at that. Tell him to go to the local brothel next time. Wake up !!!
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