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writes:hello people,i have a question? my husband and i did 69 for the first time and i couldnt believe how turned on i really was,.i really had high hopes about the whole 69 thing and when he went down on me he couldnt eat me out the right way it was horible he bit me and, sucked way to hard on me. i am so sore down there and swollen , and bruised what can i do to ease the pain i been putting an ice pack for the swelling . im very diaapointed how can i show my hubby the right way to go down there. ??? becasue at this point i dont want him down there at all. i'll have regular sex but he isnt allowed to give me oral any more til he learns how to go easy down there. Reply to this Question
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reader, diddyeinstein  +, writes (15 June 2007):
Give him some ground rules (#1 - No Teeth, #2 - Easy does it, etc.) then you might let him try it again, sans 69. Without the added stimuli he should be better able to focus on you, and hopefully not hurt you.
Google is always good too ... but I think you'll get quite a bit of information you don't want by just typing cunnilingus in the search bar.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Ok i have always told my husband if he was doing something wrong or hurting me and he has done the same for me, don't take it too seriously have a laugh about it you are supposed to be having fun after all, we have been together twelve years now have a fantastic sex life know each other inside out what we like and what we don't and it's all been because we talk about it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): You might try typing cunnilingus into your google tool bar, and you should come up with some techniques, otherwise, there are a lot of books at the local bookstore on the subject. That said, while he was biting you and hurtin you, why did you not communicate to him that he was being too rough, you need to tell him what is working, what feels right and what is too rough, guys need directions and instructions, and you are the only one to provide that, so speak up, next time....In the mean while, you are not going to be able to have sex for a few days until your irritation and swelling goes away, simple as that.
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