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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, i got married 2 months ago. My husband has a female friend he's known since before we met. We recently all went out together with other friends and in the mini bus on the way home from the party my husband was stroking the leg and holding hands and being kissy with this " FRIEND " of his. If i didnt know them i'd say they were on their way home to have sex. He was the most drunk i,ve ever seen him and i just sat there frozen with shock. The next day he apologised, was ashamed etc but said he didnt remember. He even asked if i wanted a trial seperation. She seemed unconcerned. I cant stop thinking about it and all my trust has gone. We will have to see her again socially in a couple of weeks and i dont know what to say to her. He says he's never had any feelings for her sexually, but it did'nt look that way to me. Please help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): Was in a similar position 12yrs ago.Husband & I on his works do.He ordered me to go to another room on some pretext when I returned he and she were on the dance floor passionately kissing.I wanted to slap him in front of everyone, but thought better of it because I didn't want to show myself up.On way home said I did not want a repetition.BIG MISTAKE.It snowballed into him chasing after her, going into town lunch time, shopping or pub lunch. She was enjoying enticing him. It culminated with him planning to say in a hotel with a gang of workmates (I was told that he was staying with friends & my company not required).He got found out Bigtime. Our relationship never recovered from this incident. He did he apologise at the time cos he felt he'd done nothing wrong or been sorry ever since. TJ.
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