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*uvin ryan 4lyf
writes:I met this guy last summer,and we talk a lot on the phone and on the internet even still now this long on. He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me but also says he loves me so much and I'm so sexy, I'm scared he will be disapointed, and another thing is he is 2 yrs younger than me, what should i do, I'm fallin for him! help me plz.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): No idea why you would think he will be disappointed. You need to focus more on what you want in a man, not just the impression you make on him. What do you want in a relationship or in a man?
By the way 2 years is nothing. That does not even count as "age diffence"
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Oops my bad...you did say you met in the summer but we just assumed that you meant you met online on a certain website or something. You didn't say you met in person.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (7 February 2007):
Well if you've already met him in person what are you worried about? LOL Stop with the insecurities already. Of course he won't be dissapointed. He's already met you, he knows what you're like already. There is nothing to worry about! :) Do you mean dissapointed in terms of appearance or in terms of personality? If it's about appearance then just make sure you always look well groomed and looking like model material whenever you go to see him. Get your hair done and make sure your make up is looking good, manicure pedicure, stylish clothes etc. I'm sure if he really likes you it won't really matter if you look like model material or not but it might help a little bit if you do put in the effort. In terms of personality just be yourself and let him see you for who you are. If he really likes you he will take you as you are and like you as you are. Don't feel like you have to change or be someone you're not to please him. If he really likes you then superficial things like appearance won't matter to him.
Maybe we got your question wrong because you said "He keeps saying he wants to meet up with me" And in no part of the qiestion did you say you've already met! LOL So please forgive us for this misunderstanding.
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reader, Luvin ryan 4lyf +, writes (6 February 2007):
Luvin ryan 4lyf is verified as being by the original poster of the question You all ahve read it wrong, I have met him in person before thats how i got to know him maybe that will help a bit more, Thanks
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (5 February 2007):
Well if you're certain he loves you as you say then I don't think he'd be too dissapointed in you in any major way. If you really are worrying about it how about you take some pictures of yourself (recent ones) and send them to him. Or do you have web cam? Maybe let him see you exactly how you are on web cam. And if after all that and he's still showing interest then thats when you know he's not dissapointed.
Are you sure you know him well enough to be falling for him? And are you sure you really want to meet with him? Would it be wise to meet with him even if you wanted to? Ask yourself those questions before you do anything you'll regret.
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reader, happytots +, writes (5 February 2007):
 i agree with wats been said, he could be anyone, he could be lying about his age where he lives and everything. i dont think you shud meet him, and instead go out on a night out perhaps, meet sum u like and can actually see what hes like for urself. take care
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 February 2007):
 He doesn't love you. Nobody can love you until they meet you. Also are you prepared for the age gap? Girls are so much more mature than guys at your age and he may disappoint you which is something you haven't considered. Also, promise me that if you do meet him you'll take someone with you just in case he's not who he says he is. However much you think you "know" him you can't until you've met.
CD
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