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He wants to give me his virginity, but is having problems getting it up..

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Question - (15 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 June 2010)
A female Zimbabwe age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Am 29 and he is 27 and a virgin. we have been going out for two years now and we had never slept together. recently he said he said now he is ready to take it up and have sex with me but everytime we try he cant have an erection. we tried everything but to no avail what could be his problem?

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A male reader, CruiserBill United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

Sounds to me like he is very nervous. You need to talk to him, reassuring him a LOT. If he can masturbate, he can come with you. Have him start masturbating and you start touching him, talking to him. Next time you take a more active role and eventually have him enter you, always give him positive, reassuring feedback and lots of love. Things will work out fine.

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (15 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntI'm guessing he's gay, WAY back in the closet, still.

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