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He wants to give me his virginity, but is having problems getting it up..

Q.   Am 29 and he is 27 and a virgin. we have been going out for two years now and we had never slept together. recently he said he said now he is ready to take it up and have sex with me but everytime we try he cant have an erection. we tried everything ...

A.   18 June 2010: Sounds to me like he is very nervous. You need to talk to him, reassuring him a LOT. If he can masturbate, he can come with you. Have him start masturbating and you start touching him, talking to him. Next time you take a more active role and ... (read in full...)

Could this be bad for our marriage?

Q.   I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...

A.   18 June 2010: I have E.D. fairly bad but perhaps not quite as bad as your husband. I take Cialis but my erection is not hard or strong enough to enjoy intercourse. My wife uses here hands and finishes me off with her mouth and I am enjoying the most rewarding ... (read in full...)

Should I bother waiting for him, or should I move on?

Q.   I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 2 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 29 I’m 38); he said thats not a problem ...

A.   17 June 2010: This guy has zero respect for you. Find someone who actually cares for you as a person! Move on I say.... (read in full...)

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