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writes:Hi im a teenager who likes a boy and is beggining to like him more and more, he says he likes me and wants to meet up with me even tho we go to the same school but speak on msn we dont speak in school. He wants to do things with me but would rather no-one knows because he says he doesn't like things being spread.I asked him if he would expect more than hugs and kisses and he said yes. He isnt after proper sex off me he said he woudnt at this age anyway. But wants to do everything else with me. He doesn't want a girlfriend. But ive had a hard life the past 2 years due to another boy who i really loved he hurt me and used me. I don't know what to do. :( Help please?
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reader, miss fit +, writes (9 May 2007):
he wants to do everuything except for propor sex and doesn't want to tell anyone. this is because he doesn' want to go to jail and doesn't want anyone to know cos he's scared they will laugh. you can do so much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2007): This boy has told you, he wants to date you and he expects more from than just hugs and kisses...but..he wants to keep this all a big secret. He doesn't want 'proper sex' but he wants to do everything else...such as? I think I know what he's after and so do you. He wants little favors from you but he doesn't want to put in the emotional work and committment of respecting you enough make you his official gf and to allow everyone to know you are his gf. So what do you think his motives are? I think you know what he's after...kick his ass to the curb and tell him no. You aren't prepared to be used and hurt again. The guy is a loser. Drop him out of your life as quickly as you can. and remember, only date nice fellows who respect you, dear. The only way to do this? Make them prove they are trustworthy and that they respect you, before exploring more physical side of relationships. That is the only way to function in a dignified way, in the dating world. Self-love is critical here. If a guy pressures you and tells you he wants other things but not a relationship then don't further dig a deeper painful hole for yourself. No matter who he is and how much you like him...discern who is good for your life, by telling the difference between a cad and a good guy. This boy...is a no gooder Tell him "it won't work...see ya later' Be strong, hun..you will never regret thegood choices you make for yourself. Take care and be smart.
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