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writes:about 4 months ago i had a miscarriage. my husband was devastated when we found out. now he wants to try again. i told him i wanted to wait a little longer and he said he does not want to be an older father. he admitted he has been hoping i would "accidently" get pregnant. this can make or break our relationship. he wants a child more than anything as do i, but am unsure about the timing. should i put myself aside for this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Having a baby has to been between two adults and if you are not ready then he should respect your wishes. My daughter went through similar and now they have a beautiful baby girl, but she didnt want kids for years and her hubby did, mainly because his sisters were having them, but that is beside the point. They had theirs when she was ready. Have a good long chat with him and let him know just how you feel and that you will have one soon, but when you are 100% ready.
take care
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