| A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Erm, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now but we're not kissed, he has tried to kiss me, but I'v not had my first kiss yet so I pulled away :/ I am worried about not knowing what to do and need some tips, can anyone help? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008): Thanks (: My friends have been telling me the same basically.. but I can't help but worry :/ I actually feel ridiculous.. but yeah. Thanks for the advice and I will keep it in mind x
A
male
reader, Anonyman  +, writes (1 July 2008):
 Ignore the post below that says you should have already kissed at your age. Thats nothing to be ashamed of, not everyone goes at the same rate in life. There is no set pattern to follow, just go with what you are confertable with.
As for the rest of the advice she gave it sounds pretty solid. Kiss lightly to start with, put your hands around his back or neck. And don't use tounges until he does even if he does. Copy him as much as possible. Good luck xx
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): I am 17 and had simialr problems prt from i was going out with a boy 4 7 mnths n did not kiss him lol. that was wen i was 15. i cant tell you how easy it is just open your mouth and let himuse his toung then u copy lol please dnt worry it will be fine bbe gd luck xx
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): omg , your joking! how old are you, it says 16-17 and you havent kissed?
ok well there really isnt a specific way to do it. The only way you can be really bad at kissing in my opinion is being really sloppy!
u can start for the first few seconds by not using your tounge and just gentely kissing his lips then slowly move your tounge in and he will do too, you can just follow him!Dont be boring vary what you do
colse your eyes
enjoy it
kissing can be made more enjoyable with hands. caress his hair, grip has back, lie on a bed and wrap your legs around him, let him touch you
just see what happends dont plan it, will will all just flow dont be nervous
...............................
|
