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writes:This summer I met a guy at a camp (he was one of the staff) and we really get on well. I'm 15 and he's 22. We lived together in a residence with some other few people. He calls me his little sister, so I call him by big brother. I know he cares about me as if I was his real sister, and he is always defending me! {So cute!} The thing is that he lives in England and I live in Switzerland! He has never showed me he loved me so I don't think he loves me.. But I'm in love with him.. And I don't know what to do.. I don't really wanna tell him because he is coming where I live just to visit me during Easter and I don't want him to change his mind... Please help me guys... :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2013): He may be 22 with a full head of hair, but he is still a creeper. I'm his age and his feelings are NOT normal. The fact that he calls you his little sister leads me to believe (unless he is asian) that he may also be an otaku...with a little sister complex (aka. attraction to underage girls).
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2013): You're way too young for him, the pair of you need to forget it, or else he could get into a lot of trouble. You're underage by law being the main problem, its illegal for the pair of you to have a relationship.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 January 2013):
 I would be very concerned that a MAN of 22 would WANT to have a relationship with a young lady (a girl really) of 15.
that speaks to a probable lack of maturity on his part. Which at the age of 15 works but by 18 you will have probably outgrown him.
IN addition your liking him may be innocent but he may be thinking he can groom you for sex.... be very careful.
ask your mom and dad what they think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@So_Very_Confused I know he is coming just for me because when I told him that I might be on vacation, he told me that he was coming to visit me and that if I wasn't there he wouldn't come...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 January 2013):
Honey at this point in your life 22 is too old for you.
7 years is not a lot after age 21 but at 15 you are a bit too young to be with a grown man.
is his trip at Easter JUST to visit you? or are there other things going on for him as well?
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reader, Serpico +, writes (7 January 2013):
He's far too old for you. The maturity and responsibility difference between 22 and 15 is enormous. For the time being, stick w guys within a year or two of your own age.
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reader, Rupan  +, writes (7 January 2013):
I think you should tell him that you love him.it will calm your mind.Does not matter what he going to think.Falling in love with a 7 years older guy is not unusual.Therefore he will not think bad about you.It is not easy to find real love always.
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