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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi me and my boyfriend live quite a distance from each other and the nights we are apart which are more often than not we talk on the phone before bed usually around 11pmLast night i had a very bad headache and text him at 9pm to say i was going to soak in the bath and then go strait to bed.he text back saying ok it must be bad for me to go to bed at that time, and that he loved me and goodnight.i read the text then did as i said, bath and bed, at 10.45pm he sent a text saying, he couldnt help thinking i was with another man and he believed i sent that text to stop him from ringing me up later, but to have a good time.I have tried to ring him, text him, ring him again but there has been no response.I am mad that he even thought this, i have gave him no reason whatsoever to believe that i would. When we are apart its very rare i go out on nights as i have three young children, during the day i am with my children, so when exactly does he think i would get the time to meet someone?.another thing, he cheated on me two times within the last three years, is it possible that he judges people by his own standards?sorry this is more of a rant but he has some nerve. any advice-opinions on this please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): People usually do judge other's by thier own standards! I know how frustrating and maddening it is to be accused of something you haven't done! Especially when they won't even let you explain. It's all due to lack of trust (and judging by thier own standards) He knows he can't be trusted, so therefore he believes you can't be trusted either!
All you can do is talk it out and get him to realize YOU CAN BE TRUSTED! Trust is a key part of a healthy relationship!
I am sorry you have to be put through this just for having a headache!
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