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female
age
36-40,
*ilmisskay
writes:my boyfriend has been textin a girl who he says he friends with and i didnt trust him at first but no i believe him, he told me he wouldnt talk to her anymore an told her he didnt want to talk to her because it upset me, but i didnt want him resenting or blaming me for ruining their friendship so i text her and told her i didnt have a problem with her and that me and my bf had a misunderstanding, so this would make him happy. but i did ask him not to taxt her so late at night, theyve been havin conversations up until 1am every night and this is what winds me up the most, so i asked him not to. i told him i dont mind him texting her, but asked him not to it late at night because thats what i dont like. Its past 23:00 now and ive just received a message from him meant for her, so i phoned him and have shouted at him because im upset hes still texting her so late at night when he told me he wouldnt. am i wrong to be upset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007): It sounds to me your boyfriend wants to keep his options open in case he feels like going out on a date or something else with another girl....if you like him and want to keep his interest, back off, don't ask any questions, stop texting him or phoning him or asking him to do anything with you...if you want to talk to him when he calls, fine, but a few missed calls from you may get him asking what is wrong....men like the chase, you are probably too available, and he is probably pretty immature besides and not ready for a serious one on one relationship, sorry to say.
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