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writes:This guy that i've been crushing on recently wanted to catch up with me for coffee. He said he would call me around noon and we'd decide on a place...I got ready and waited and waited...he didn't pick up my call and i got a message after 4 hours saying he'd dozed off and 'waassup'.I got a bit pissed..i told him i'd meet him another day.He did not reply back...nor did he apologise.What should i do??He's not interested, that's for sure...
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 March 2011):
 Sounds like a booty call kind of guy. I'd let that fish back into the sea and forget all about him.
He doesn't seem worth the time or effort.
And he still didn't apologize he just called himself an ass.....
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 The issue with this update is that you had to text him that you were a bit hurt, no reply, then the next day he even admits he's an ass but continues to be vague and tell you he'll come by sometime soon. He doesn't commit to a day, or make definite plans; he still continues to be vague. I wouldn't reply back. In fact, I would move on because it's evident this isn't going anywhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i texted him saying i felt a bit hurt coz i had to cancel other plans and i waited for so long...there was no reply for a day, today he sent me a text saying"hey lulu,am an ass know that,i so wanted to meet you;its been ages.i'll come by soon sometime. How are you?"I didn't reply.I don't know what to say.Should i just ignore him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i texted him saying i felt a bit hurt coz i had to cancel other plans and i waited for so long...there was no reply for a day, today he sent me a text saying"hey lulu,am an ass know that,i so wanted to meet you;its been ages.i'll come by soon sometime. How are you?"
I didn't reply.
I don't know what to say.
Should i just ignore him?
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reader, christie1  +, writes (1 March 2011):
this shows he is not really interested and not really botherd that he didnt show up- he shows this as he didnt appologise he obviously thinks this is ok to do- which is not, you could ether have it out with him or ditch him,he may just need to know how you will react so have a go! and let me know how you get on.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (1 March 2011):
What does he do for a living? Unless he works the graveyard shift and this is his first day off in a while, then what a piss poor excuse he gave you.
What can you do? Move on, you know this guy's not interested. His actions confirm that.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (1 March 2011):
 Unless he has a night job that doesn't allow him to go to bed until early morning, or had some sort of emergency -i.e., he had to take a relative or friend to the local hospital in the wee hours of the morning, and stay with them all night - then no, he's definitely not interested.
Would you really want to get involved with a man who is that inconsiderate?
Better chalk this one up to experience and put it in history's trash bin.......you can do much better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): What should you do? You should let this "relationship" doze off...completely. Clearly he is inconsiderate. Find someone else who is more alert at the very least!
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