A
female
age
36-40,
*mhabbl
writes:I live with him. Well, He lives with me. I am young independent and have a lot going for me. I never hold it over his head that I give him a lot.. food shelter clothing love cell phone car ect... all the things i've done have been because I love him and to better help him in life.. phone so i can call him and he can have a life, car so he can find a job and take care of his daughter... i give him money so he doesn't feel so bad all the time. He holds things against me little things that i don't hold against him he used to be so loving but in the past month has become distant, never home, never returning calls.. doesn't help around the house, I want someone to care about me. I love him so much .. im not conceited but im pretty and cute and have a great heart, we had a good intimate relationship but now all i do is nag and worry .. my last words to him were i hope i die and he never sees me again. why'd i say that because i want him to feel bad for all of this i want him to feel sorry for hurting me and i want him to remember i was the perfect girl until he ruined me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): You are giving too much, he won't be attracted to a mommy, he wants a girlfriend....move him out, let him fend for himself and you have tried to help him and if he isn't appreciative and there for you, it is time for him to go.
Get a spine and stand your ground. If he isn't showing his love and livng up to your standards kick him to the curb.....you can do better.....and once he's gone he will try to get the gravy train going again....tell him NO...guys love that in a woman.
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