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writes: I have been seeing a great guy for about 4 months. He was separated with children who live at home with him. His wife left him two years ago for someone else but she returned to the house whenever she babysat the children so my guy could go out. Now she has split up with her boyfriend she has moved back into the matrimonial home with my guy and told him she wants to try again with him. He doesn't know what he wants now. What do I do? Just walk away (even though we get on so well) or do I put up a fight?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 I'd walk away, because he doesn't know what he wants too do. If I wanted to be with someone, it wouldn't matter who knocked on my door. That wouldn't change my position.
From his end, I have a song, still in the production phase, it's called, "I wasn't good enough for you then, I sure and the hell ain't now."
It's about the one who leave for another, then comes back. What's changed in the person they left in the first place. What makes them want them now and didn't want them before. If given a chance, how long before they take off with someone else for a while, leaving you in the dust all over again.
These questions we need to answer, but don't as much as we should when getting back with someone. Of course the answer comes when we only get burned again by that person.
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