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female
age
41-50,
*hony
writes:Hey I recently met someone and we hit it off pretty good. We've been friends for 6mos. now and we are real close and talk to each other about everything we even have real good passionate sex. He tells me that he likes me a lot and that he would go crazy if something ever happened to me. I told him that I love him and that I'm in love with him and wanted to take our relationship futher but he says that he is not ready to get in a new relationship because of all the drama and hurt that his baby mama has put him through and is still putting him through. I told him that we're already in a relationship it's just not said but I really want us to announce that we are gonna try. Do I need to hold on or move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): So you're just waiting for a formal "announcment" that you guys are an offical couple? I think this is something you have to figure out on your own. Forcing him into an "offical" relationship isn't gonna help anything, so you gotta ask yourself how long you can wait. No matter how the situation makes you feel you should try to be empathatic towards his situation. I don't know what happened to him but in many cases (especially involving your baby's mama) 6 months is not near long enough to be ready for another serious relationship. But if that's too much for you then move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): The answer is yes you do need to move on, ask yourself why do you want to be a third party in some other relationship melodrama...
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