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writes:I just spent the weekend with my ex boyfriend whom I haven't seen in about a month. We had a really good time togehter. He was telling me that he loved me and he missed me. Also, he was saying that we will get back together again soon and that we we're practically together already. But, he needs a little more time to get a handle on his depression and to be patient with him. I'm trying not to read into this but can't help but wonder if he's being honest or feeding me a line, which I don't think he would say any of that if he didn't mean it. Please help me with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): I'm not trying to sound negative here, but the exact thing was said to me. I'd been with my boyfriend for a year, then suddenly he wants a break because he is "depressed" etc. The reason was so that he could get off with about 20 other people in the matter of 2 weeks and spend time with the girl he had been cheating on me with for 6 months and to try and get his ex back. He told me to wait for him to sort his head out throughout this time and that he still loved me and begged me not to look at another guy. I got back with him after the 2 weeks as I didn't know and he'd "sorted his head out". Then a month late the truth came out and it hurt so much.
But, thats just my story, yours could be very different. I just know that alot of men can't stand commitment. I was just someone to fall back on when all else fails, seconds. Don't let it happen to you.
I hope everything works out.
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