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writes:I just spent the weekend with my ex boyfriend whom I haven't seen in about a month. We had a really good time togehter. He was telling me that he loved me and he missed me. Also, he was saying that we will get back together again soon and that we we're practically together already. But, he needs a little more time to get a handle on his depression and to be patient with him. I'm trying not to read into this but can't help but wonder if he's being honest or feeding me a line, which I don't think he would say any of that if he didn't mean it. Please help me with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006): I'm not trying to sound negative here, but the exact thing was said to me. I'd been with my boyfriend for a year, then suddenly he wants a break because he is "depressed" etc. The reason was so that he could get off with about 20 other people in the matter of 2 weeks and spend time with the girl he had been cheating on me with for 6 months and to try and get his ex back. He told me to wait for him to sort his head out throughout this time and that he still loved me and begged me not to look at another guy. I got back with him after the 2 weeks as I didn't know and he'd "sorted his head out". Then a month late the truth came out and it hurt so much.
But, thats just my story, yours could be very different. I just know that alot of men can't stand commitment. I was just someone to fall back on when all else fails, seconds. Don't let it happen to you.
I hope everything works out.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 depression is a thing that is a really hard thing to get over! i did it with out help but not every one can, but suffering with depression you do sometimes push people away when you do need them most! so maybe his telling you to be pateint for him because he doesnt want to be with you and treat you unfairly and keep pushing you away! i dont think his takeing you as a fool, just protecting you from being hurt by him! if you think you can wait and be pateint for him then do so, but if you dont think you can then maybe moveing on would be best as depression can last a very long time especially with out help but then again it all depends on what depression his got as well how serious it is!
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