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writes: how do i get my girlfriend to trust me? I have lied in the past about relationships and she has found out. Now she says that if we are to stand any chance i need to find a way of getting back her trust. I have been thinking of a solution for ages but I have not got one yet. can you think of anything i can do to get her to trust me? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Just be yourself. No lies. And you don't need to do anything extra, just be patient and let your girlfriend see the real you. The more you are where you say you will be and do what you say you will; the more times she is able to see that you are faithful and truthful the more trust you will gain. We don't want you to jump through hoops because that seems false--we want you as you are.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 This process is simply going to take time. There is not a sure fire way or some magic words you can say to make everything be okay again. Just continue to treat her well and for G-D's sake TELL THE TRUTH!!! It doesn't take much to be honest. You will have to be patient and give her time because it has to be rebuilt. It won't happen overnight but eventually it will happen.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 there is nothing you can do to make her trust you in a day or in a few weeks, the only way she will ever trust you is being honest and truthfull about everything! explain to her there is nothing i can do to make you trust me other than be 1000%truthfull in the future that way you will see iyou can trust me! trust in someone takes a long time to build especially if they have lied to you before and more than once! only time will make her trust you, all you have to do is explain to her about time as well as staying truthfull which isnt hard to do!
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