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female
age
36-40,
*ittle swt
writes:I was in a relationship with a guy who I was crazy in love with and so was he about me and suddenly he started acting weird not calling me as often as he does and not coming to see. He even said he knows he is withdrawn but won't tell me why but insists he loves in his text and I told him I do too. But things haven't gotten back as it used to be with us. What should I do?
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Just stay in touch and be friendly with him but do not expect anything as expectations may hurt you. From here, see where it leads.
He may have other problems he needs to resolve on his own much as it is affecting you but be a friend to him and who knows in later days he may tell you why he become a bit indifferent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): Tell him he needs to be upfront and honest with you about what's bothering him, because you feel pushed out and don't know what to think anymore.
It might not be what you're thinking, he could have fallen into depression of some kind for some reason but whatever it is its putting strain on the relationship. If you and him are to continue with the relationship you both need to address it as a couple so there's no miss-communication and you're both clear on what is happening and what stage things are at.
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