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writes: Just a quick question! Can a guy adore you, care a lot about you, be very physically attracted to you, be your best friend, tell you everything, love you but not know if he's in love with you????My bf of 3 years and I recently broke up, I know he did genuinely love me and he know even know he does care so much about me, he says he loves me but is just not sure if he's in love with me!!I'm 21 he's 23!Please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): See this is where im having difficulty, im sure i love this lovely girl, but im not sure if im in love with her. I could see us having a future but im really not sure if thats just because i dont want to lose her. She means so much to me as a friend and has done for several years, but i still feel as if there could be more between us. Im really not sure what im trying to say or if any of this makes sense
basically, if im not sure about being in love with her, can it still mean i am in love with her??
I want that moment where were looking into each others eyes and everything disapears so were just left there alone to share our first kiss and i want to hug her and never let go, hold her hand.. see her smile
Im so sure i love her, but if to be in love with her is really that different, and i beleive it is, how would i know??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): sounds like hes trying to gently let you down. love can be really tricky it is possible to really care and love someone for example maybe an ex you had kids with, you would always, with exception love them in some way but its not enough.in situations like these a person can care so much about you it seems like love,you find exsamples in close friendships etc just dont become is call person because feelings and signals do get confused and hes already said the words to let you know that you need to find someone whom can say they are In LOVE with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2006): sounds like hes trying to gently let you down. love can be really tricky it is possible to really care and love someone for example maybe an ex you had kids with, you would always, with exception love them in some way but its not enough.in situations like these a person can care so much about you it seems like love,you find exsamples in close friendships etc just dont become is call person because feelings and signals do get confused and hes already said the words to let you know that you need to find someone whom can say they are In LOVE with you.
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reader, brokenhearted +, writes (13 December 2005):
thanks, i understand that he could have fallen out of love me although i don't personally believe that you can fall out of love with people!! really i don't!
if this is indeed the case, do you think there is any chance that he might fall back in love with me? We are both very busy at mo and I think that we just didn't have time for any romance! Could this be a reason why he thinks he may not be in love with me????
We just got way too comfortable!
Would you still be able to have sex with someone that you werent sure you loved if you really cared about her and didsn't want to hurt her feelings??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): hello brokenhearted,yes, there is a difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone. it sounds like your boyfriend loved you very much, and after 3 years i'm positive that you two got to know eachother very well..well enough to share information with, and be your best friend.sometimes, people just lose that "in love" feeling with their partners. maybe your boyfriend realized that he loved you as a person, and he respected and cared about you very much, but he just didn't have the same feeling as being in love with someone. you can love many people (parents, friends, relatives), but there is a dstinct difference in being in love...maybe he loves you like he would love a very close friend, but he obviously doesn't see you two being together in the future. best of luck !
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