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anonymous
writes:In December I stated dating a great guy who I fell in love with very quickly. When we would chat, we had the same things in common and the comment 'where have you been' was not only said but felt by both of us.The other remarkable thing I felt we had in common was the way we would think at the same time, like I would go to call and right in unison his call would come through.In the early new year he would say I am close to sayig it, and that to take care, when driving a dangerous road, tellng me I was carrying his heart.Then a month ago, he told me that he could not do this, I was going through a lot and feel I smothered him a bit too much, but after crying on the phone to each other and saying he could not do it, but also saying what have I done.After we decided to see what happened I asked him were we ok and he responded yes I think we are, then a week ago I was told I just want to be friends, I saw him recently and as it was agreed that I was ok to stay over but could not stay with him, much deliberation he decided I could, but nothing could happen.As we watched a DVD he put his arm over me and we held each other all night, I also still getting text messages calling me beautiful, Please help me to understand this so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Maybe he likes you but just doesnt want a serious relationship right know with anyone. He may just see you as a friend, just one possability. He maybe confused and feeling the obligation of his family to have a wife, or his religion is waying down on his choice, of his heart. In any case you should talk to him about it to find his place in these senareos over his life. If you don't talk to him you will not be able to move on. Time is going on and you don't want to waste it on a person who doesnt want to be with you in that way, get confermation in anycase.
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reader, davie +, writes (24 March 2009):
What a confusing situation! It sounds like he is crazy about you but at the same time running away from any form of a relationship.Sounds to me like there could be more to the story. He might have an issue you don't know about, an interest in someone else, or some uncertainty about you.The only real way you can find out is to ask him. I would try and sort this out as carrying on in the limbo you two are in could very quickly get very painful as you don't know what he wants.
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