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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently met this guy online and we just went on a second date and we had a great time and really get on, kissed loads and cuddled/held hands lots and have loads in common. He then sends me a text to say that he loves my personality and we have loads in common but he doesn't want to see me again because he doesn't find me sexually attractive. I am very attractive and was very shocked/hurt to receive this text as I know he found me attractive otherwise why would he go on a second date and kiss me and hold hands etc? Do you think he got scared?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): The guy did not get scared, he just changed his mind, I think what he means is there is not any chemistry there for him, and that is something indefinable for most people....I think on line dating is harder, men seem to expect there to be rockets and fireworks going off or something is wrong and they move on quickly hoping to find the next best thing....I would not waste one more second worrying about this, this guy is one of many, move on and say, NEXT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): Well, guess it was hurtful for him to tell you he didn't find you attractive. All I can say is people can be "funny" sometimes.
But look at it this way: you only had two dates with him. No investment at all, so just let it go, its his loss and you can and will do much better than him!
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (1 August 2007):
 hey, ye sounds to me like he has some issues maybe with commitment he wouldnt of dont those things with u unless he found u attractive unless he was using you but thn hed only be using u for sex n im guessin with jus havin 2 dates u didnt have sex. somthing must have put him off to be honest tho love i dont think hes worth it if u want to try get him back then go for it try n find out what the problem is. good luck :)
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