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writes:i was seeing my friend's brother for four months. i felt as if i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. i had to move away to go to uni. he said we would stay close and see what happened. he said he would keep my space in his bed and that i was worth the wait. in the 2 months i have been gone i visited him twice. i was faithful to him and we spoke every day. i thought we had a future togther. he finished with me because he does not want anything long term with me and says something was missing, that he can not explain. he loves me but maybe not in that way. i asked if there was any hope for the future but he said no and its fair to tell me now rather than later. he said he wanted to give it a go but never thought anything serious would come of it.im devestated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): thank u i justwish i was the one for him but thats not possible
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Of course you feel devestated. I can relate my ex decided once we had returned off of holiday with my family and a week before he went to uni after we had arranged to stay with eachother that he actually doesn't have feelings for me, isnt attracted to me and never will be again. It sucks especially when someone gets your hopes up, telling you your worth the wait and then changing their mind.
Unfortunaely this happens and you can't help feeling betrayed especially since your feelings haven't changed at all if anything they probably grew.
Look at the upside at least you're the one at uni and you can meet so many new people who'll probably end up being friends for life. Let yourself feel heartbroken and deceived but pick yourself up by enjoying your new uni life its gonna be alot of fun.
Hope this helps
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