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writes:Hi, I am in love with a married man... and yes I know that this is wrong and I am not here for judgemet I am here for some advice. We have been together a year, he has been married three. No kids. I know he loves me and that he is not happy at home and wants to leave. But when? I mean he said he will move in with me and then he didn't. Now he says he will move out and I have sold my flat, with the notion that I would move upstate with him and he would get us a place to live.But he is very aloof about this now, all he says is it will all be fine, look back on this and see that the crap was worth it. What is going on. Do I walk away or give him a chance and see if he pulls through. I know that he loves me and means that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): You deserve better. It doesn't sound like he is ever going to leave his wife. I think you need to accept that and move on. Someone told me once that you should never borrow someone elses man. This statement makes sense for lots of reasons I suppose but I figure that you should never borrow someone elses man because he's never going to be able to give you everything you want and need and you deserve it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): I have been through the same thing.I advise that you start walking away and as you reach the end of the street - start running!
They never leave them, I don't know why, with mine I think he was scared of her. Also to add insult to injury he probably says the same things to you as he does her.
Dont tell me he isnt sleeping with her? sounds familiar.
Please dont fall for this. Walk before you come out of it the baddy.
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