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writes:i'm really confused, my husband goes on about how he hates lesbians but i later find porn on his conputer of just lesbians and also he has aranged with a female work friend who is bi to join in with us one night. why is he lying like this??please help!!
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reader, matron +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Hi, he doesn't hate lesbians, few men do, i believe that some men find lesbians intimidating because women know what women like and men think they do! It obviously turns your husband on to watch them and now i assume he wants to try the real thing only he's forgotten one important point...you aren't a lesbian! Has he actually asked you and have you agreed to this? I really think it's time you had a serious talk with him and find out exactly what he wants from this relationship with you. Dont be bullied into something you really dont want to do especially by someone you cant trust, you are worth more than that. Good luck x
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reader, camille +, writes (14 June 2006):
 There's a big difference between lesbians and girl on girl action! Your husband is trying to live out a fantasy but what he should realise is life is not a porn film and in reality I hear it's not what it's cracked up to be. Especially as you're being asked to participate. I'm assuming you're against it? You're not going to agree to take part are you? Don't do anything you don't want to just to keep him happy. Sadly his feelings are quite popular amongst males, but they don't all try and set up the scenario. Talk this thropugh with him.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (14 June 2006):
 dear reader. why do men lie fall stop. no-one has the answer to that. i don't think there is a man alive that don't get off about lesbians so on this question i am stumped you need to talk to him and find out what he likes and don't like if he carries on lying then think of what your future holds togetheri hope you find your answerskeep me posted all the best xxx
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