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writes:Hi I had sex for the first time this weekend with my boyfriend of 6 months (we're both over age so its all legal etc!)It happened as he had an erection and was rubbing me with the end of his penis, and then he kinda pressed it against me and it went in about half way (it only went in half way - does that count as sex?????)The thing is, because it was rather spontaneous, he wasnt wearing a condom, he didnt come in me, but it is likely that he may have pre-cummed - what should i do about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): If i was you i would get a morning after pill just to be on the safe side. There are lots of theories about penetration, i think you would know if he had penetrated you but it sounds like he did penetrate, so be careful in the future and make sure he uses a condom even if you are just playing around. Then the whole event can be enjoyed in safety.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): call a planned parenthood clinic first thing in the morning. my guess is they will tell you that there is not a sufficient chance of pregnancy for you to be worried -- it's true that pre-cum does contain sperm, but if it was only part-way in for just a moment, i doubt much could have ended up inside of you. the odds of pregnancy resulting seem to me exceedingly small. that said, there is such a thing as the morning after pill, and experts can tell you whether or not that's advisable in a case like this.
as for whether it counts as intercourse, i say no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): You mean, did he penetrate you? Well, he kind of penetrated you. Really depends I guess on what you feel penetration is, but in my opinion, yeah close enough.
Is it sex? Are you kidding me? SEX doesn't solely mean penetration. SEX can also mean anything to do with sexual activity - eg: blow job, hand job, oral, sexually arousement from touching, licking, sucking, fingering, and so on and so forth. SEX is an event, where as PENETRATION is one of the activities you do in that event.
Is it likely he precame? Possible. Was his penis drooling with slimey stuff or did you think that was your own wetness? If you're really worried about it, go take a pregnancy test.
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